Last Friday was one of Rockstar’s school dress-up days in honour of the UN’s International Day of Peace, happening across the world in another hour thereabouts. The batik shirt I sourced (because he turned in homework about traditional batik printing for the learning unit) however ended up not having any the colours of our country flag that I thought we were supposed to dress the kids in, so Rockstar went to school like this:
Lots more boys were similarly casually dressed, but wow the girls went to town – beautiful Korean Hanbok, Chinese Cheongsams or Japanese Kimono, and all with their hair nicely done. Still, kind of outfit FAIL to me (but not him – agreeing to wear anything bright red is already quite a feat because if he could he would live in school uniform, navy blue-anything, and hipster phrases and pics – ergo he insisted on that baseball cap) so at least lemme make good with Rockstar’s first actual drawing of a Malaysian flag for school:
Now, international celebrations and cultural holidays tend to be extremely good learning opportunities in schools in Hong Kong like the rockstars’. Each year at a glance I would say Rockstar’s class has been made up of roughly a third Caucasian kids, a third Caucasian-Asian mixed kids and a third Asian kids. And that doesn’t include the Caucasian or Asian (say, Dutch + Australian, English + Kiwi, Chinese + Korean, Korean + Japanese) mixes that aren’t immediately evident until they tell you.
When they break out the Who We Are learning unit each year, it’s amazing what nuggets of information Rockstar comes home with, about his friends. (Last year some of the activities on their cultural day included chinese dumpling-making, and German story telling (think Brothers Grimm)). One of his current bus buddies is from Romania. Last year his bus buddy was from Colorado. He says he’s sitting at the same table with a new kid from Mongolia. His current daily bunch of buddies on the playground consists of Japanese/Korean, Aussie/British, Japanese/British and of course Indian, local Hongkie and Malaysian. The girl next door he sees most frequently is Korean/Chinese.
I trust it’s ok to say that in previous years some of us volunteers would get confused – one year a Caucasian mum matter-of-factly told me how her daughter always got mixed up with another blond-and-blue-eyed girl in class. “I don’t think it’s too hard (to tell them apart), mine is the chunkier one” (not sure about that part, but certainly some Asian mums admitted to having problems telling the girls apart)… Then, for a time there were these Indian and Asian kids who had this brainwave – when one of them got in trouble they would straigiht-facedly give the volunteering mum, particularly if she was blonde-and-blue-eyed, one of their friends’ Indian/ Asian names. Kind of like what twins probably do on a daily basis, but on a more erm, “international” level 😀 In that Ah, Parent Volunteer, Fresh Meat For The Lions kind of way :D. Not to mention, they kinda know who is less likely to be able to tell them apart haha. (Please don’t anyone take offence ok, none of the mums I’ve spoken to have ever found this less than amusing, maybe even a little endearing..)
Anyway I really liked the message in the school newsletter:
“…With 38 countries represented at Kennedy School, we felt as a school that this is one day that we can all share, celebrate and embrace the international nature of our school and the rich cultural diversity we have.
Sadly, the world we live in doesn’t seem to be able to operate as harmoniously as our children do, particularly when we reflect on the economic, social and political crises that are affecting many places in our world currently.
We all hope on this UN International Day of Peace, that our children can grow up in a world that is indeed harmonious and peaceful…”
Truly there is no better time than now in the raising of our children, to acknowledge that prejudices and biases cannot have a place if we are to grow as the world’s citizens – the internet and globalisation have both made the world so small, magnifying bad as well as good in our society, by leaps and bounds.
Well, talk is cheap, isn’t bias hard to get around?
Hell, yeah.
And yet we can but try. Because being stuck on this lil’ ole’ planet with all you other people is the hand we’re dealt in life (and fine, you’re stuck with us too) ;D
Ahem… at the risk of being a pedant:-
“German story telling (think Hans Christian Andersen))”
Er… Hans Christian Andersen was a Dane. Do you mean the Brothers Grimm, perhaps?
Also, on a Malaysian note: I wish citizens of that country could have more peaceful thoughts re our ethnic groups within the country, not just re other nationalities besides Malaysia’s.
My bad, you are right – hansel and gretel is by brothers Grimm not Hans, thank you.
We can but hope that there would be world peace one day by instilling this value into children when they are young. But the reality is power, money, fight for resources are what that is causing world peace to be unattainable. Power can even corrupt a person who starts out with good intentions initially.