Boat Trip With Our Former Neighbors From Sai Wan Ho

**Selamat Hari Raya Aildilfitri 2014…

One of the most awesome things about the Best Neighbors In Sai Wan Ho is how Mr H’s company (I think) has this Yacht Thing as one of the company perks. I call it “Yacht” with a capital Y to accord it the rightful respect it deserves, and I add “Thing” just in case it isn’t really classified as a yacht and I’m committing sacrilege. Our former beloved neighbors have two formerly-tween kids who have now grown into a recent uni graduate who’s starting work at a major investment bank and a soon-to-be undergraduate who’s just leaving for college. Basically It’s Now Or Never To Meet Them Or Wait Until The Second One Has Also Graduated. Plus, Kings literally just got back from Shanghai 🙂

The next most awesome thing is how they let us bring JD. (Later, it turns out one of the other guests is a vet who even checks JD out for potential motion sickness!)

Here's all 3 kids waiting to board... (Yes Rockstar brought a book to read in case he got bored; JD forgot hers)

Here’s all 3 kids waiting to board… (Yes Rockstar brought a book to read in case he got bored.. JD forgot hers) 

(It's hard to tell which child is prouder of their charge)

(It’s hard to tell which child is prouder of their charge. Wait, that can apply to any of the three…)

And so that be the boat we were on...

And so that be the boat/ Yacht Thing we were on…

And that be JD remembering her boat legs...

And that be JD remembering her boat legs…

(JD used to be on the boat all the time when we wake boarded – she even had her own life jacket so we could pull her back into the boat easier.. I console myself that she’s getting older anyway, but honestly it’s hard to keep up the number of outdoors-y activities when you live in a country that has heat warnings and typhoons and rainstorm warnings and the gamut of storm gradings re outdoor activities that necessitates some awareness of which aged child can still have activities in which grade storm warning….. And yes heat warnings for the dogs/ pets in general are also circulated by I think SPCA or etc, some of the animal shelters…)

Add to that Rockstar finding his boat legs (and suitable facial expression to go with)

Add to that Rockstar finding his boat legs (and suitable facial expression to go with)

And then there was jet skiing...

And then there was jet skiing…

(Suitably "act cool" expression alighting from jet ski :P)

(Suitably “act cool” expression alighting from jet ski :P)

(Which is a little hard to maintain when you are on a giant yellow banana)

(Which is a little hard to maintain when you are on a giant yellow banana)

(Though he pulls through here...)

(Though he pulls through here…)

And Wow I Didn't Know How Color-Coordinated These Two Are, With The Boat

And Wow I Didn’t Know How Color-Coordinated These Two Are, With The Boat

And family selfie

And family selfie to end the day

The Ends.

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Xena Warrior Princess And Her Attack Dog

Over the weekend, Xena Warrior Princess ventured to Victoria Harbor. Her Ferocious Attack Dog came with.

Xena And Her Attack Dog - can't you see how fierce they are?

Xena And Her Attack Dog – can’t you see how fierce they are?

The Miss’ expression says it all. All that’s missing are Rockstar’s ninja turtle weapons on her back. She’s proud of Fierce Attack Dog (who was very much not alone as Fierce Attack Dogs go, this day – there’s lotsa spoiled mutts who probably take ferries with their pet humans here all the time, just I couldn’t take pics with the other dogs because my hands were full keeping Xena here from recruiting for her army 😀 (for real though, we know JD’s friendly, the other dogs probably are too if they made it here, but bossy toddler when two dogs are meeting for the first time is just never gonna be a good idea)). Fierce Attack Dog is proud to be here with her Latest Little Human charge.

So Xena shall have to made do with just one Fierce Attack Dog.

“I’ve got you, babe.” (Could apply to either one.)

(Aren’t they cute though…)

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A Little Self-Help On The Weekend…

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1) How To Respond If Someone Holds A Gun To Your Head. (What? Not self-help meh? :D) Written by a former police officer. There’s some disagreement about things like whether to talk to your aggressor, whether to look them in the eye etc, but what I really took away from it was how he analyzed what each person holding the gun to your head was after, and why he was using the gun. Was it a robbery? Hostage situation? Kidnapping?

It says if someone is holding a gun to your head don’t drive where they want you to drive to – because a) they are not likely to shoot you when you are going 50 miles an hour (what if your body gets stuck behind the wheel and person with gun is trapped in the car?) and b) when they want you to drive to a secluded area it’s to preserve their anonymity so they can do what they want to you in peace. So don’t give them that. (This is interesting because without reading that my first instinct is to totally just drive where they wanted me to. If I drove.)

Apparently you’re supposed to drive briskly to as crowded a place as you can and honk your horn. Because if you do what your kidnapper wants, there’s even more chance they will kill you or whatever it is they want to do to you anyway. If they’re going to do it anyway, how about them doing it with lotsa witnesses around and the highest likelihood they won’t be able to get out of a life sentence?

Now, when he puts it that way………

2) Writing Lessons From Stephen King. Yes the horror story guy. He is too good. So I don’t read him (unless I want to give up sleeping like, forever).

I like #2. Prepare for more failure and criticism than you think you can deal with. Because long ago I read the semi-autobiography of an editor of a large newspaper (sorry, I forget offhand which one and have to go dig up the old book) and remembered what he said about writing books for a living – he’d worked out that one needed to produce not just a book but a bestseller ever few years just to “survive” solely as a novelist or something. It says in the article linked above that Mr King pulls about USD 17mil per annum. (And then of course there’s J.K. Rowling, but anyway…)

AND it’s really good advice for anyone, whether you have a startup or well, life. 

3) Career advice! 😀 Inspired by Business Insider’s Great Careers College Kids Ignore, I found this interview of Guy Who Discovers Cavefish With Anus On Its Head. I mean, you could be Investment Banker or you could be Guy Who Discovers Cavefish With Anus On Its Head and why do we all think “Investment Banker” sounds better? Biased, I tell you…

cavefish with - ok, you get the idea

cavefish with – ok, you get the idea

Oh and in some obscure reversal of fortunes (kind of), just for the heck of it Evolution also made a Spider With Mirror On Butt.

How could I be smart enough to make THAT one up?

How could I be smart enough to make THAT one up?

4) How One Man Makes Up To USD 1,000 A Week Standing In Line.  Very Hong Kong-relateable 😀

Proving you can't keep a good guy down... but you can keep him in line. :)

Proving you can’t keep a good guy down… but you can keep him in line. 🙂

Laid off AT&T employee turns queueing for you into a business. He now has an actual company and has employed his friends. You might not like anus fish but come on, in HK you could totally be surfing the net in line somewhere. Online in line. Seriously. How do I come up with this stuff… (Ans: Hormones. Caffeine.)

5) Eye-tracking Heat Maps Show Where You Really Look  re ads and stuff.

Like this one

Like this one

Women apparently looked at the model’s body a little more than the men did – and everyone looked at her face the most. Interesting right – hands up, who thought that would turn out differently <puts hand up>

6) I’m 22 And I Grew Up Without Internet. For parents of more techie-inclined kids. He talks about some creative ways in which he goes about getting that wi-fi because it’s not right at his fingertips at home, and reflects how this colors and ultimately enriches his own internet experiences, allowing him to still access some of the benefits without the most obvious disadvantages, of connectivity.

“…Let me be clear, I would never dream of implementing a similar no-internet policy in my future household, but the positive effects I’ve experienced at least ensure I won’t be buying an iPad for my kid out of the gate…”

(In a nutshell I would say I took away from the article that there is a big difference between being served up all that tech and connectivity on a platter…… and having to work out how to hook up your own.)

7) 10 Things I Want My Daughters To Know About Marriage from a daddy blogger. What’s interesting is his own dad left when he was 9 so it’s not like he’s preachy-hypocritical. He strives to be the dad he didn’t have. Inspiration for me to come out and say the amount of crap your daughter thinks is alright for her to stomach will be related to the amount of crap she’s seen growing up. (I. Said. Related to. I didn’t try to speculate how, related to. As I said before, not affecting your kids whichever way with your own marriage is the tougher one.)

8) The Miss has the skit this week, titled either I’m Not Sure It’s A Good Idea or Full Marks For Enthusiasm (as in, she’s doing water color painting by the bed (because she gets a view) and her current pose of choice is fingers in half a victory sign. Or, in honor of the recent World Cup, how so many players score and then point heavenward.)

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Have a good weekend…

 

 

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Hello, Kitty

Did you guys know Hello Kitty offers a smorgasbord of sports equipment? Yeah us neither, but This One Time we pass by the Miss zeroes in on…. yeah the pink what-look-like-tournament-grade soccer balls, basketballs, volleyballs, tennis balls, and – get this – even golf balls. They even have fluffy golf club covers, various sports bags – including giant pink ones for golf clubs – plus badminton, tennis, table tennis and I think even squash rackets.

I Dreams In Pinks

I Dreams In Pinks

And a random memory of when I was a fresh grad at my first bank job in Singapore. There was this quite senior lady, a lawyer whom I think was in her early 40s and quite good at her job (then again I was a lowly freshie what do I really know right…). At least I don’t remember hearing anything negative about her work, but I vividly recallpeople making fun of the Hello Kitty earrings she wore with her suits. Looking back I like to imagine that if she knew she would respond, “I have a 9 year old daughter, idiots. SHUT UP.”

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Little Miss Speak #16 – The Importance Of Owning Your Weaknesses

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Where just obediently saying “please” is just not gonna happen…

Miss: Mummy. Have it.

(I reach over about to pass her toy to her)

Rockstar: <barely looking up> Never said please.

Miss: <turning to him seriously> Never, never, Ko.

Rockstar: <still not looking up> So naughty.

Miss: <still seriously> Yes.

(Rockstar snorts)

When the sun came out one day...

When the sun came out one day… (Yes that’s Rockstar’s old rash guard – which she will outgrow soon!)

 

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Rained In, What Are They Doin? (Or, Ways To Furnish A Doll’s House)

Like, WHERE were all these things when I was growing up, did I really play with all those Transformers? There’s cute little baby bunnies and kitties and darling little furniture (gonna avoid the “pretty girl doll/Barbie princess” thing as long as I can – and did you know there is a huge market for Brer Rabbit-esque animal figurines dressed as humans? No one cares about Brer Rabbit’s proportions and whether he needs to be on a diet, do they?) but what’s really interesting is how I never understood why dolls’ houses were under the “educational” section at some local toy stores until now. As in, you can come up with all kinds of things to “make” your own furniture on a rainy day.

1) So yes, from the previous post, the Rockstars were coloring the cutouts off the Ikea toy furniture boxes. As in, whoever said kids get the most mileage from playing with a cardboard box must have been to Ikea. (And ate the Swedish Meatballs and Vegetable Medallions on a regular basis, and bought like, a tonne of colored construction paper for all kinds of future projects plus a gadzillion frames for all that kiddie art from the tonne of construction paper, and – and…….!)

Befores:

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Afters:

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(And yes that's the Miss' abstract art on the walls :)

The Miss’ art for the walls. In. SPIRED. 😀

(Ever notice how absolutely awesome every toddler is at abstract art? :D)

2) Here’s where a lot of it went:

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Spot the Ikea stuff!

If you picked out the black square on the ceiling, you are a black belt at Ikea furniture shopping 😀 It’s one of those lights with the motion sensors which you stick in your wardrobe, which switches on when you open the doors… The people in that marketing course who said you need to stick little inexpensive items people never knew they needed in bins at eye level when they are browsing about tasteful store decoration that makes them feel like real decorators as in professional, totally knew what they were talking about. Did you know you were going to need a motion sensor-activated wardrobe light?

And then we found………. <drrum roll>

Plastic bits!

Plastic bits!

They’re from the packaging in one of Rockstar’s toys. But you can find similar when you order pizza – they’re those little things pizza people stick in the center of the pie that keep the pizza box from caving in on the pie in the middle. Ever opened a pizza box, took out the little white plastic thing from the delicious hot mess of cheese and sauce (oops did I manage to keep to family blog-ness with that?) and thought Hmm. Dis Does Look Like A Doll’s House Coffee Table. Right? Right? Us too!!

A.k.a. reading tables for the reading corner!

A.k.a. reading tables for the reading corner!

Or coffee table!

Or tea/ coffee table! Such stylish pointy legs!

Rockstar contributed a tea machine for the tv area in the attic. “The moving arm dispenses tea or coffee”. Which brings me to……

3) Rockstar not being Rockstar if he didn’t start building things for his sister’s doll house.

Guess what dis is?

Guess what dis is?

(Caveat: Rockstar was actually not happy with me for putting this pic up but I was too lazy to take another.)

It's...... an intruder sensor! (For real, Rockstar disappeared into his Lego Headquarters and came back with the thing all on his own...)

It’s…… an intruder sensor! Rockstar disappeared into his Lego Headquarters and came back with the thing one day…

And Rockstar was unhappy with me because when I took the pic it was missing the antennae, which the Miss promptly lost after he presented the thing to her with a flourish. (It showed up a few days later, just I didn’t re-take the pic. Frankly I’m amazed we ever saw it again, but anyway…)

Other houses just have guard dogs, but............

Who Let The Dog Out? What IS dis?

…Yup. That is a picture of the “Robot Attack Droid” Rockstar made “to guard (Miss’) house.” You know, other homes have guard dogs, but nooooooo Sister of Rockstar must have Robot Attack Droid for her house.

And after the initial taking apart of his efforts, she stopped messing with his inventions. As in, she does value the little things he does for her. (Also, he told her, “You better not lose it, ha….. I used my Special Star Wars Lego to build it ok….!)

Why, yes, he's got a lotta mutant Lego concoctions up there

Why, yes, he’s got a lotta mutant Lego concoctions up there

Which brings me to a little side story… While there’s preoccupation with brushing up any school or sports skills your kid is behind on (i.e. camp, extra classes etc), there’s also substantial readings out there about the importance of free play. “Scheduling” free play is a bit of an oxymoron, but after hearing also about the importance of free play, there are days when Rockstar just sits quietly taking apart/ putting together things, and when he’s on one of these more productive kicks, I try to move meal and schoolwork times around to accommodate. It involves a….. “willingness to randomness” that I was once not used to, some of the Lego Rockstar takes apart esp the old Lightning McQueen ones bought years ago were pricey and it used to drive me nuts when our helper was forever knocking over some of the very detailed Lego models with the carefully and closely-followed instructions, then hiding the bits because she didn’t know how to put it back together.

But here we go Random Building of Stuff (I console myself that at least he’s “still” playing with his several years old Cars Legos). Besides, Rockstar’s putting special pieces into his building things for his baby sister. <swoon> Who could ever have a problem with that? 

Note Facial Expressions

To Infinity And Beyond! Note Facial Expressions

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Elephants, Hippos and Other Animals, Oh My

1) Another sign of the “changing times”: Dooce’s A Response And An Apology, in response  to and apologizing for Wildlife Encounters, Episode “Baby Elephant”.

Does this look like any of a gadzillion unwitting tourist shots with elephants out there?

Does this look like any of a gadzillion unwitting tourist shots with elephants out there?

On a recent trip to raise awareness about human trafficking, Heather of Dooce got flamed in part for ignorance re mostly widespread animal cruelty regarding the training of baby elephants (particularly for the tourist trade) in Southeast Asia. Basically the foreign bloggers marveling at a baby elephant in the street pretty much got hammered for being touristy and raising awareness about that because the right thing to do is to not encourage this trade by riding those elephants. 

Now, I am Southeast Asian of the sort who has baby elephant memories (in fact I didn’t even study tertiary further “abroad” than Singapore.) During primary school in Sandakan, one of the times we drove up to the Sepilok Orang Utan Rehabilitation Center there was a baby elephant casually plucking at all the plants he/she could get at while loosely secured with a dog chain to a post. “We shot the mum,” the Orang Asli caretaker explained. “Simply couldn’t keep her out of our crops. And then we found the baby and felt bad so here he is.” That was about 30 years ago.

To the best of my knowledge that elephant wasn’t tortured trained for tourist pleasure, and back then they also had Orang Utans who sling their arms around you and get into your bags and negotiate what you will be allowed to leave “their” territory with, all for your tourist pleasure 😀

(For real though, you hike deep into this jungle clearing at feeding time to be prodded and poked and posed with for pictures by the Orang Utans 😀 The guides erm, casually advise you not to be led out of their sight by any of the animals, who btw can be quite insistent and are very strong. I remember some very mild concern when they completely lost one grown man for a few minutes, before he walked back hand in hand with one of the animals. Probably not for the little kids..)

So anyway just to say that growing up I rode elephants during little vacations to neighboring countries, the ones with the elephants in shows. I know lotsa others who did. And until I read Dooce (did I mention she is from Utah?), Southeast Asian (who has never been to Europe nor studied abroad further than Singapore nor seen snow til I was 34) that I am, I still wasn’t that aware just how abusive the practice of training a baby elephant for tourist rides often is… Or that it is reviled in parts of the world nowadays…

2) Celebrity Kids With More Frequent Fliers Than You

The Jolie-Pitts! Any surprises there?

The Jolie-Pitts! Any surprises there?

Had to put this after I read it says they travel with 6 kids + 2 nannies per kid = HOW MANY FREQUENT FLIER MILES IS THAT COMBINED I CAN’T EVEN.

3) 20 Animals Chicer Than You On Instagram

Chanel signature Camelia on bunny

Chanel signature Camelia on bunny <swoon!>

Now, if we could just figure how to carry the Chanel box/ keep the rabbit on the Chanel box all the time, we’d be set.

(Or, in the Miss’ words, “Wabbit! Wabbit! Wabbit! Wabbit!)

4) Dog Fails Of 2013

Seriously. HOW can you fall asleep mid-run?

Narcoleptic Dachschund. Seriously. HOW can you fall asleep mid-run?

This One Got Played By The Ball

Dog Gets Played By Ball

5) Closely followed (and a little duplicated) by Dogs Who Failed So Hard They Won

Issa Win.

Issa Win. Actually look cute will win.

…Proving it’s not whether you win or lose. Not even how you play the game. It’s about how cute you look. Of course it is.

6) And so. 14 year old finds graffiti making fun of her weight. She decided to laugh it off.

Dis is news if you're 14 because it's an angsty time...

Dis is news if you’re 14 because it’s an angsty time… Of course it is.

Not sure about the comparing behinds thing, but this is here because of the laughing off thing. Should be shown to other 14 year old girls with the otherwise mild caveat re comparing behinds thing. Not whether you win or lose. Not even how you play the game. It’s about how cute confident you look.

7) Another disgustingly over-achieving parent. Mum draws on children’s lunchbox napkins every day.

Like, who DOES this???

“Worms on your head”? Must be private joke with her kid…

8) The Rockstars got nuthin’ that tops the Gif below, so they’re in second last place (?!) this week with Rained In, What Are They Doin’? (To be continued…)

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9) Fight the good fight, don’t let the lions bite? 

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No wait, so what if they do?

Have a good week ahead…

ps: Gif from here

 

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Condolences and prayer for MH17

 

pic from Dailystar.co.uk

pic from Dailystar.co.uk

This is a standalone message because I was writing about elephant mistreatment and cute animals on the web when news of MH17 went down. There was just no way I could properly rewrite anything I had from cute kiddie pics and quotes and animal stuff (HK has been having iffy typhoon and rain/thunderstorm warnings so with the kids periodically stuck indoors, activities cancelled, I can’t sit quiet enough to write properly so I’ve been tidying toys). When there is tragic news, I remind the Rockstars of the ripple effect that each life in the tragedy will have on untold others who are left behind.

Condolences and prayer for the passengers and loved ones of MH17.

 

 

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Little Miss Speak #15 – The Importance of Encouragement and Praise

#15

Rockstar: Miss, Miss, can you count for Ko-ko?

Miss: <SILENCE>

Rockstar: No really, Mum, she knows this – Come on, Miss – One….. Two….

Miss: <SILENCE>

Rockstar: <encouragingly> Three, four, five…..

Miss: <SILENCE>

Rockstar: <encouragingly> Six…. seven…..

Miss: <SILENCE>

Rockstar: <bit impatiently> eight, nine, ten.

Miss: Well done, Ko-ko! <claps>

We are also impressed with dragon fruit...

We are also impressed with dragon fruit…

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Little Miss Speak #14 – The Importance of Please

#14

Bedtime in the Rockstar household…

Me: Miss, go put your bottle on the table and come lie down.

Miss: Please. <reproachfully> Please, Mummy.

Me: Ok ok sorry please put your bottle on the table and come lie down.

Miss: No.

(And spaghetti can be quite a spectator sport…)

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